Real Talk: Your Woman is Faking It - Here's How to Fix That
How To Make Your Woman Stop Faking Orgasms
You must have heard the line “fake it till you make it,” right? It implies that you must pretend to have it all until you actually do. And that is all fine till “having it all” means imagining a life of luxury, power, or fame. However, when it comes to sexual pleasure, faking it till you make, it is probably the worst advice ever.
And for those of you men who think “bullshit, I got this” and that probably your woman hasn't ever faked it, let me break it down to you through a survey that Durex conducted in India, which highlighted how almost 70% of the women don't orgasm every time during sex.
While the stats may be accurate and heart-breaking (equally for men and women), there are legit ways to ensure that your partner isn't simply letting out fake moans to graze your ego but is actually having her mind blown.
Here are 3 ways how to make your woman stop faking orgasms!
1. Open Conversation:
The biggest reason why women feel the need to fake an orgasm is that they fear that talking about it might bruise their partner's ego. Society may have been here to blame, but you can turn that around by establishing a few healthy rules. So, why not initiate a conversation with your partner? Let her know that it is a safe space for her to share anything and that you won't be offended that you can't make her climax. Talk to her about being open and perhaps voicing out whenever she hasn't orgasmed, so you know your job isn't done yet.
- Have you ever talked openly with your partner about this topic?
- Do you think society plays a role in why women need to fake orgasms?
2. Get Down There:
Don't be afraid to dive deep and test the waters because if there has been a need for her to fake it in the past, it only means that you need to try a little more harder. Get to know what she's like, and let your hands and tongue go on a wild expedition so you can explore what does and doesn't excite her.
- Have you ever tried exploring your partner's preferences?
- Do you think it's important to communicate and learn what your partner likes?
3. Let Her Take The Lead:
Another way to ensure your woman doesn't have to fake her orgasm is by letting her guide you through the process. Take her hand and ask her to make you follow her lead. From using your hands to using your person, let her decide the rhythm, pace, and position! This way, she won't just feel comfortable but will also be able to show you just what works for her.
- Have you ever let your partner take the lead in the bedroom?
- Do you think it's important to let your partner guide you?
But wait, there's more! Let's not forget about the power of experimentation. Every woman is different, and what works for one might not work for another. So, don't be afraid to mix things up and try new techniques in the bedroom. You might discover something that drives her wild and leads to genuine, mind-blowing orgasms.
Now, for those of you who have made it this far and are thinking, "But what about me? What about my needs and desires?" Well, my friend, that's a conversation for another day. Let's focus on ensuring your woman is having a good time and not faking it.
Conclusion:
So, to summarize, if you want to make your woman stop faking orgasms, start by having an open conversation about it, take the time to explore her body and what excites her, let her take the lead, and don't be afraid to experiment. And hey, if all else fails, there's always therapy.
Now, I want to hear from you. Have you ever been in a situation where you suspected your partner was faking it? How did you handle it? Do you have any additional tips for ensuring your woman is enjoying herself in the bedroom? Let me know in the comments below!
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